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Staceyâs Weekly Newsletter
A weekly pause for people who lead people.
This isnât a tips-and-tools newsletter. Itâs a steady reminder that leadership doesnât have to feel so heavy and that there is another way to lead without carrying everything alone. Each week, I share a perspective or reframe to help you find your footing, understand the patterns youâre stuck in, and lead with more clarity and less exhaustion. If youâre ready for leadership to feel more grounded even with people who challenge you - youâre in the right place.
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1 year older, 1 year wiserâŚ
Itâs my birthday.
Which means Iâm now officially old enough to:
pause before reacting
buy sensible shoes
know meetings need snacks
realize âper my last emailâ is rarely about the email đ
and understand that most leadership problems are actually conversation problems
The funny thing?
B...
by Jennifer Zwaap â
Jun 01, 2026
Why Change Feels Slow (until itâs not)
Iâve watched my high school son grow 4.5 inches this year.Itâs wild.Changes are big. Sudden. Noticeable.  You can almost see it happening.With adults⌠it doesnât work like that.The leaders I coach are often impatient. They want to see changes in their team in the first few weeks or months. They...
May 25, 2026
#authenticedge
#authenticedge #reframingtheleadershipdance #leadershipdevelopment #workplaceculture #leadershipcoaching
#leadershipcoaching
#leadershipdevelopment
#workplaceculture
19 years laterâŚ
My birthday is coming up in a few weeks, and it has me reflecting a bit.In 2007 (19 years ago next month), I left K-12 education. I was a Curriculum Director, adopting textbooks and teaching teachers. On paper, it all made sense.But something in me knew⌠it wasnât it.Nothing was dramatically wron...
by Stacey Larsen â
May 18, 2026
#authenticedge
#leadershipcoaching
#leadershipdevelopmen
#personaldevelopment
#reframingtheleadershipdance
You may have noticedâŚ
You may have noticedâŚI like poetry.Or at least, I like writing in a way that feels a little like poetry.Short lines.Space to breathe.A rhythm that sounds more like how I talk⌠or think⌠than how I was taught to write.Thatâs not an accident.Itâs how I see things.I think in metaphors.In patterns.In...
by Stacey Larsen â
May 11, 2026
#authentic edge
#emotional intelligence
#leadership development
#reframing the leadership dance
#workplace culture
May Day⌠or mayday?
How are you doing this May Day, Leader?No - I donât want to know if you met your goals.Or if you have sufficiently made it through your to-do list.And I donât need to hear âIâm fineâŚâ, really.Iâm asking about YOU.How are you feeling? How are you showing up?Itâs super easy this time of year for le...
May 04, 2026
#leadership #emotionalintelligence #selfawareness #leadershipdevelopment
reframing the leadership dance
I love the theatre. I donât love when work feels like one.
Iâve always loved the theater.Cats was the first show I ever saw.Hamilton was the most exciting.And this weekend, I took my son to see Sleuth.Thereâs something I love about watching people fully step into a role - the emotion, the presence, the connection. Itâs powerful.What I donât love⌠is when...
by Stacey Larsen â
Apr 27, 2026
mindset
personal development
reframing the leadership dance
When delegation isnât workingâŚ
If work keeps coming back to youâŚits probably not because your team isnât capable.Itâs because you arenât having the right conversations.Most leaders think theyâre delegating.They assign the task.They explain what needs to be done.They trust the person to take it from there.And thenâŚQuestions com...
by Stacey Larsen â
Apr 20, 2026
What your team is really watching this week.
Leaders often think their team is watching their decisions.What they say.What direction they give.How they set priorities.But thatâs not what people remember most.Your team is watching how you handle tension.The moment someone disagrees with you in a meeting.When something goes off track.When you...
by Stacey Larsen â
Apr 13, 2026
#reframingtheleadershipdance
What does it say about a leader who hires a coach?
Leaders rarely hesitate to invest in coaching for their employees.But when it comes to themselves, the question changes:What does it say about me if I need a coach?Shouldnât I already know how to handle this?Shouldnât I be able to get people onboard, deal with the difficult employee, or stop gett...
by Stacey Larsen â
Apr 06, 2026
#accountability
#personaldevelopment
#reframingtheleadershipdance
The line we donât always see (especially on April Foolsâ)
Iâve always had mixed feelings about April Foolsâ.Lighthearted pranks can be funâa little surprise, a shared laugh. But thereâs a line there, and it can get crossed more easily than we think.What starts as harmless can land differently for someone else. Confusing. Embarrassing. Even hurtful.Not b...
by Stacey Larsen â
Mar 30, 2026
#authenticedge
#leadershipdevelopment
#management
#teamculture
#workplaceculture
Stop Explaining. Try this instead.
Many leaders start the week doing something that feels helpfulâŚbut actually keeps their team dependent on them.They explain.If I had to pick one leadership move that could change your entire week, it wouldnât be a decision. It would be a question.Not the polite kind we ask out of habit:âHowâs it ...
Mar 23, 2026
#feedback
#leadershiptraining
#management
#reframingtheleadershipdance
The Leadership Lie most people start Monday believing...
A lot of leaders start the week believing a quiet lie.It sounds like this:If something goes wrong⌠itâs on me.So the week begins with the leader watching everything.Tracking everything.Stepping in quickly when things start to wobble.You think youâre holding people accountable.But over time it cre...
by Stacey Larsen â
Mar 16, 2026
emotionalintelligence
habits
management
reframingtheleadershipdance
teamculture